Just imagine, your heart is racing and your blood is flowing, you're excited and a bit nervous... You see a beautiful woman on the screen in front of you and you almost move in anticipation of the amazing time you are certain to have together.
You pause.
What exactly is the proper way to approach?
No worries because I have a quick and easy guide for beginners and seasoned patrons alike.
Step One: Do your research
Before you make contact make sure to look at reviews, any sites they may be active on, blog posts, helpful guides, etc. before reaching out. This will help you get a feel for their exact preferences, protocols, boundaries and personality.
The truth is: There is no one correct way to approach. Each person will have their own system and it is best to be educated and respect that system.
A couple things to look for are preferred method of contact and screening options.
Doing your research will help you determine which screening option is best for you.
Step Two: Prepare for screening
If you are using references, be sure to reach out to your references prior and let them know that you will be doing so. Along with being courteous this can also help expedite the screening process!
Sending profile links along with a matching phone number to each reference is absolutely necessary.
If you are using ID make sure you have it handy and are willing to take a full frontal selfie holding your ID. Each provider may have you do something different in the photo to validate that it is current.
Step Three: Making Contact
If you are reaching out to a provider you have not seen before I highly recommend giving them 24 hours to complete screening. Last minute bookings can be amazing, but save that for a repeat date! Now that you have a time in the not-so-distant future in mind feel free to reach out on any platform provided.
A great intro text or email should have your (first) name and username (if applicable) a brief description of yourself and your selected method of screening.
Step Four: Booking and deposits
It is not uncommon that a courtesan requires a small percentage of the appointment prior to confirming a booking. Typically, this will apply to the advertised cost of the appointment.
Once you set a date and time this deposit is also typically non-refundable unless the provider should cancel.
Step Five: The two text (or call) method
The day of your appointment has arrived and you are so excited! The day-of it is best to send two texts - once to confirm the appointment and a second when you are on the way to the appointment. This allows the provider to give you a location near their in-call first and an exact location second.
Step Six: Arrival Etiquette
When you arrive at the location, prior to approaching you should always send a text letting your companion know that you have arrived. This allows them to be fully present and prepared when they open the door to greet you.
Upon arrival the donation should be placed in an obvious location, inside an envelope. At this point it is proper etiquette to excuse yourself to the restroom. This is a great time to wash your hands, use mouthwash, or even rinse off if necessary and the location accommodates.
This gives your companion an opportunity to discreetly observe the donation.
Tips for an Amazing Time
Hygiene, hygiene, HYGIENE
Notify your companion if you have a preference in STI prevention so they can prepare.
Every single appointment will be covered, and your companion should be prepared.
Tips for an Amazing Time
Communication and consent are key in any interaction
Be mindful of the amount of time you have scheduled, a great companion should never make you feel rushed, and their time should be respected in turn.
Negotiation is not an option. Whatsoever.